Not gay, not really bi either I guess, but I'd make out with this guy if it ever came up. Pretty sure I'm serious too.
umm....yea....he's pretty cute.
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to hide the bodies of the people I killed because they were annoying......
I've been wrong lots of times. Lots of times I've thought I was wrong only to find out that I was right in the beginning.
See, I was just thinking about this yetersday. Seems to me like alot of my generation are more open to being gay or bi.
If I think a guy is sexy, I got no problem saying so. Most guys around think nothing of it.
So when I say I'd make love to Noah Hathaway, I mean it.
It's a good thing, and a healthy thing. I'm married of course, but a good looking person is a good looking person despite their gender. I'm not attracted to every female I see, just the ones that catch my eye and brain. Same with males. Don't mean a thing.
Is it truly more openness, or just that it's no longer taboo for straight men to talk about an occasional attraction to another man? This has been a topic of conversation in the gay community for a long time. After all, we're well aware of the men who identify as straight, but who have a gay fling every once in a while.
I think the research into human sexuality is fairly clear on this point. There are a lot of people who are capable of attraction to both sexes. Whether or not they act on that attraction is dependent on a huge number of factors. There are people who are exclusively straight or exclusively gay. There's also nothing that prevents one from changing one's position on the spectrum over the course of a lifetime. Sexuality is a complex thing.
Indeed indeed. I've wondered for a longish time if, when looking forward into a more and more diffuse and complex future for sexual roles and mores, essentially a complete polymorphous sexuality could be the ultimate response by "modern" societies to all these gender conundra. This could take many decades, centuries even, but it could be that the very concept of "preference" could fall by the wayside in the fullness of time. In a society where sexual activity becomes entirely divorced from traditional gender roles then a person's "confusion" over such concerns might dissipate to near nothingness. This eventuality could have some fascinating repercussions, no doubt both salutary and otherwise, but the lowering of social stress overall might be highly beneficial. It certainly seems this would be healthier than an increasing balkanization of gender and sexual preferences with each point on the spectrum ever more defensive of a narrow and precise definition of its "role".
Harken to the immortal words of Herman Hupfield. Who? The guy who wrote this:
You must remember this
A kiss is just a kiss, a sigh is just a sigh.
The fundamental things apply
As time goes by.
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to hide the bodies of the people I killed because they were annoying......
I've been wrong lots of times. Lots of times I've thought I was wrong only to find out that I was right in the beginning.
Well I'm not even going to try and be as articulate ad Darwin, but I could see gender walls dissolving one day. Who knows how our species will change in time. If what Darwin said comes to pass, we may very well one day see ourselves evolve into one gender or rather genderless.
The religious right probably won't be around by then demonize biology. But you can't stand in the way of evolution.
There used to be some others I can think of but I don't see them post anymore. One person in particular used to get into epic battles with sgreger1 about politics. Which, having said that, is not at all hard to do.
Lol, yah I miss him. There have been a few people who were GLTB on this board throughout the years, I think there were at least 5 at one point because I remember us discussing it during some political discussion.
I don't know about polymorphous sexuality and the far-flung future. Very interesting thoughts, I agree, but they don't have much to do with the here and now, IMO. I'll be content if I'm fortunate to live long enough to see the end of homophobic persecution. There are still far too many places on this planet where gay men and women are harassed, vilified, imprisoned, tortured, and executed, simply for daring to be honest about who they love.
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