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No cojones: Speaking of cleaning up Stockholm… So, I’m on the crowded train coming home from class last Tuesday night. Across the aisle from me sits a middle-aged, rather cool, in-crowd-looking, English-speaking guy. Some time later in the trip I see him stealthily take the packet of snus out of his mouth and flip it onto the floor beneath him. Yuck. Disgusting. And littering. He just stopped looking cool.
And here’s the rub. No matter WHAT he looked like, or if he had been a she, old or young, if I had had any cojones whatsoever, I would’ve said something like “I’m sure you’re a nice person, but is that REALLY the example you think a grown man should set for others?” But I sat speechless. Pissed off and speechless. Not a proud moment for me.
Oh!!! It just occurred to me...! Here's what I could've done without having to say a WORD to him. I could've simply taken a tissue out of my purse, made my way over to him, bent down and grabbed the disgusting pack of tobacco from under his feet, and then put it into the trash can that was 3 feet away from him. Yes! HE would've gotten the point for SURE. I would've felt I made my point. Peacefully. On the other hand, everyone around would've thought I was nuts because I don't think any of them noticed what he had done. Hmmm....
No cojones: Speaking of cleaning up Stockholm… So, I’m on the crowded train coming home from class last Tuesday night. Across the aisle from me sits a middle-aged, rather cool, in-crowd-looking, English-speaking guy. Some time later in the trip I see him stealthily take the packet of snus out of his mouth and flip it onto the floor beneath him. Yuck. Disgusting. And littering. He just stopped looking cool.
And here’s the rub. No matter WHAT he looked like, or if he had been a she, old or young, if I had had any cojones whatsoever, I would’ve said something like “I’m sure you’re a nice person, but is that REALLY the example you think a grown man should set for others?” But I sat speechless. Pissed off and speechless. Not a proud moment for me.
Oh!!! It just occurred to me...! Here's what I could've done without having to say a WORD to him. I could've simply taken a tissue out of my purse, made my way over to him, bent down and grabbed the disgusting pack of tobacco from under his feet, and then put it into the trash can that was 3 feet away from him. Yes! HE would've gotten the point for SURE. I would've felt I made my point. Peacefully. On the other hand, everyone around would've thought I was nuts because I don't think any of them noticed what he had done. Hmmm....
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